"Is there disunity among believers anywhere that brings reproach on Christ?" From John Piper's Desiring God, 30 Prompts to Pray.
Oh, Lord, I felt in my heart the direction to seek a prayer prompt for my time with You today. This is the one that grabbed my attention. Unity is such a wonderful, lofty concept, and perhaps only a concept as an ideal.
Of course, the first instance and example of this prompt is our church. How my heart and mind churn with concern and even anger at the divisiveness that I ... what? ... perceive, discern! But that is no good. That makes me complicit in the enemy's scheme to divide. The balance is a difficult one to achieve; to see truth, to see beyond the surface and into people's intentions and hearts, is to see sin. It may also be filtered through my own sinfulness. What a quandary.
A second instance is my marriage. A good one, by almost all standards! Sometimes, though, I get annoyed at the simplistic, judgmental attitude of my dear husband, even though he presents it in fairly loving ways. He does not see beneath the surface much. What he sees...is. He rarely sees the spiritual battle that takes advantage of ignorance and innocence and lack of awareness. And that frustrates me, causing me to hold my tongue and to refrain from sharing my deepest thoughts, observations, conclusions, and worries. He trivializes them and then I feel very misunderstood. Consequently, I don't open up a lot. Tim Keller's The Meaning of Marriage touches on this issue a bit--but he is Tim Keller, not my husband. Tim thinks deeply. Tim's job is to see spiritual truths and untruths and to call them out. My husband prefers superficiality, I think. It is, after all, easier.
So, today my prayer is to hold my tongue and to refrain from judgment. To choose love and understanding and sweetness. To dwell in the secure knowledge that YOU understand me, and know even more than I do about this spiritual battle the world is in and the church is in and even my marriage is in.
I rather think it humorous that my devotions are currently in Ecclesiastes, where "all is vanity." All. This election is meaningless; the conflict in the church is meaningless; any tension in relationships is, on the surface, meaningless. "Do not let your mouth lead you into sin." Ecclesiastes 5:6 Great advice. In Jesus's great and all-meaningful name~~Amen.